Craig's List

Recently I have discussed with friends about the wonderful world of Craig's List. You can find a job, a home, a dog, a friend, a sofa, your potential soul mate you talked to in line at Plaza Theatre or a fuck buddy to help you out with the sexual tension left over from not getting your potential soul mate's number.

The casual encounters section can keep me entertained for hours. It also puts into light different sexual kinks, fantasies, and trends. The one thing that always catches my eye and makes me wonder if any qualitative studies have been done, is the correlation between ethnicity and oral sex. It seems to me that men of color and ethnicities other than Western European descent really enjoy and crave performing oral sex on their female partners. There are MANY posts where that is what men are looking for, not even looking for someone to give them pleasure.
How many "white" girls out there can agree that getting "white" guys to perform oral sex is a chore? It is like there is stigma about it and white boys are just too cool to do it. Like giving into a woman's desires and needs is a bad thing. I am really curious number wise how many more men of ethnicities other than western european enjoy performing oral sex compared to those of western european descent.

By the way, can you tell that I am taking a Race & Ethnicity class this semester? It sucks by the way. We have no discussions and I feel like the professor is just discussing topics we covered in my history classes....

I also wonder what is the likeliness that someone will actually answer one of those ads and also how nervous they must be doing so. I mean think about, for all you know you could have the orgasm of your life, or end up as someone's flesh cubes!

How about the date section? Do the dates go well? Anyone can describe themselves fabulously after sitting in front of their computer screen for hours compiling the perfect post to attract their ideal mate even if they are less than the ideal person they described themselves being.

All in all, I don't care about other's outcomes as long as they keep the entertainment coming!

Happy Craig's Listing y'all!

I'm sorry Dr I have what?

Having a doctor sit you down and tell you that you have a STD is gonna be a life defining moment.

But what happens if your doctor is wrong and fails to tell you that they were wrong. But what to do if they go about covering it up from you for years?

Does it change who you are as a person? Does it make you more cautious of who you date? What about how you date-exclusive relationships only or do you attempt to do the casual thing?

If you found out you were misdiagnosed what would be the first thing you do? Go out for a one night (safe) stand? Call up an old bed buddy? Jump the new person you are dating and lick them from head to toe, enjoying the fact that you don't have to have that awkward conversation?

How would you feel about the time spent believing you had a STD? How would you view yourself differently knowing that you were actually always clean?

How many men do I have to date to find Mr Right?

The average woman dates 24 men before she finds "Mr. Right." 24 men. 24 relationships. 24 possible sexual partners.

Is that true ladies? If so, how many of these men did you forfeit using contraceptives with? How many of these men did you let go without a condom? Now, this new research is saying that this is how many men the average woman dates. This is not even including sexual partners.

So in this day and age of excessive dating and breaking up, and hooking-up- what is the average number of sexual partners this average woman of 24 men has had? Are we still lying and being coy, not going over that "non-slutty" number we set in our mind? Or are we being honest about that number? I am guessing no on the last question. I am saying no because 1:2 sexually active persons will have had a STD by the time they are 25. That is a whole lot of funk on your junk if you ask me.

I want to ask these women how much they would care about their Mr. Right. I want to know this because is it enough to make sure they protect themselves as well as their current partner and their future Mr. Right? Because if they truly think that their Mr. Right is out there, wouldn't they want his current Ms. Now to practice safe sex so that when Miss and Mr Right find each other they do not have to worry about the possibility of STDs in their relationship?

So, average woman, I would like to know- do you practice safe sex with all your sexual partners in your search for Mr. Right?