To trim or not to trim

When it comes to safe sex, I feel that the best way to be safe is to make sure you are well acquainted with your sexy bits!

What do I mean by this, you may be asking. Well, it means keep your pubic hair in check.

Ladies- you have soo many options that it isn't even funny! The salon I go to has 7 waxing options in all. If you don't feel comfortable having someone wax you, then you can shave at home.

It is important to be a frequent visitor to your genitals so that you can make sure there are no indicators of a STD infection. Women get the worse end of the stick when it comes to sexually transmitted diseases and infections because they can cause a woman to become infertile and can also lead to a woman passing them onto her children in child birth.

Guys- it is totally manly to maintain your pubic hair. For one it makes it more enjoyable for your partner(s) and it also assist your in taking notice of any changes to your skin. Don't be the guy that didn't know he had a STD and passed it on to his partner.

Hell don't be a person who risks getting a STD- use condoms and talk about it with your partners. Nothing is hotter than a person who's STD tests come back negative!

How many men do I have to date to find Mr Right?

The average woman dates 24 men before she finds "Mr. Right." 24 men. 24 relationships. 24 possible sexual partners.

Is that true ladies? If so, how many of these men did you forfeit using contraceptives with? How many of these men did you let go without a condom? Now, this new research is saying that this is how many men the average woman dates. This is not even including sexual partners.

So in this day and age of excessive dating and breaking up, and hooking-up- what is the average number of sexual partners this average woman of 24 men has had? Are we still lying and being coy, not going over that "non-slutty" number we set in our mind? Or are we being honest about that number? I am guessing no on the last question. I am saying no because 1:2 sexually active persons will have had a STD by the time they are 25. That is a whole lot of funk on your junk if you ask me.

I want to ask these women how much they would care about their Mr. Right. I want to know this because is it enough to make sure they protect themselves as well as their current partner and their future Mr. Right? Because if they truly think that their Mr. Right is out there, wouldn't they want his current Ms. Now to practice safe sex so that when Miss and Mr Right find each other they do not have to worry about the possibility of STDs in their relationship?

So, average woman, I would like to know- do you practice safe sex with all your sexual partners in your search for Mr. Right?

Condoms don't protect against AIDS

that is what a young friend of mine told me when I gave him a free condom for The Great American Condom Campaign.

WHAT!!!! He tells me that the fibers in the condoms are larger than the AIDS virus. I asked him where he learned this and he said in 8th grade sex education class.

Yeah and people actually want to believe that the abstinence only sex education works!!! This is why there are so many more teens with STDS I bet. They basically decided that what's the point of using a condom if you have a chance to get the disease if you do or not.

I freaked out. Told him that it was contraception misinformation and gave him some extras.

Now I am worried about all the teens out there who do not have someone correcting this misinformation .

Condoms!

I got excited when I saw this in my Shape magazine.

I was standing in the condom aisle at Target months ago I stood and wondered why people had such an aversion to them. They come in fun colors, flavors, and textures. You have ones that are neon green and twisted, ones that are ribbed like sweaters and who doesn't like sweaters, ones that vibrate that are purely made for the women's pleasure which I love even more.

You even have lubes that help increase pleasure for both people.

Be safe, prevent stds and unwanted pregnancies, increase pleasure, decrease worries- use condoms