To trim or not to trim

When it comes to safe sex, I feel that the best way to be safe is to make sure you are well acquainted with your sexy bits!

What do I mean by this, you may be asking. Well, it means keep your pubic hair in check.

Ladies- you have soo many options that it isn't even funny! The salon I go to has 7 waxing options in all. If you don't feel comfortable having someone wax you, then you can shave at home.

It is important to be a frequent visitor to your genitals so that you can make sure there are no indicators of a STD infection. Women get the worse end of the stick when it comes to sexually transmitted diseases and infections because they can cause a woman to become infertile and can also lead to a woman passing them onto her children in child birth.

Guys- it is totally manly to maintain your pubic hair. For one it makes it more enjoyable for your partner(s) and it also assist your in taking notice of any changes to your skin. Don't be the guy that didn't know he had a STD and passed it on to his partner.

Hell don't be a person who risks getting a STD- use condoms and talk about it with your partners. Nothing is hotter than a person who's STD tests come back negative!

I'm sorry Dr I have what?

Having a doctor sit you down and tell you that you have a STD is gonna be a life defining moment.

But what happens if your doctor is wrong and fails to tell you that they were wrong. But what to do if they go about covering it up from you for years?

Does it change who you are as a person? Does it make you more cautious of who you date? What about how you date-exclusive relationships only or do you attempt to do the casual thing?

If you found out you were misdiagnosed what would be the first thing you do? Go out for a one night (safe) stand? Call up an old bed buddy? Jump the new person you are dating and lick them from head to toe, enjoying the fact that you don't have to have that awkward conversation?

How would you feel about the time spent believing you had a STD? How would you view yourself differently knowing that you were actually always clean?